The worst photograph ever taken. Apologies for all of my recent photos, actually. Giovanni managed to remove and lose the cover lens of my camera so all photos now look grainy and dull. If you are searching for a gift for me....a new camera is a terrific idea!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Our last week in Delhi
The worst photograph ever taken. Apologies for all of my recent photos, actually. Giovanni managed to remove and lose the cover lens of my camera so all photos now look grainy and dull. If you are searching for a gift for me....a new camera is a terrific idea!
Sunday, September 20, 2009
We have just returned from a week in Kerala, a state in the southwestern tip of India. Three guests from Italy travelled with us: Angelo, Sandro and his wife Sabrina. Below is my journal of our time there….
Fri, Sept 11- Flew from Delhi through Hydrebad to Kochi. Gio was a perfect traveller even though he has a cold and has 3 teeth coming in at once. Huge van met us that fit us all. Drove to Malabar House in Fort Cochin. Beautiful clean rooms with an inner courtyard and pool. In the evening went to see a Kathakali show- a traditional dance/play of Kerala. We went early to watch the performers apply makeup. Gio fell asleep at the start and was passed out for the entire performance. Dinner back at Malabar House- huge plates of grilled seafood.
Sat, Sept 12- Early morning walk all around Fort Cochin with Giovanni. Then a great breakfast- best toast we have ever had! An Italian-speaking guide came to take us around the town. Saw oldest Christian church in India, and Chinese fishing nets in action. Had a coffee at Kashi Arts Cafe and then drove to Jew Town (yes, this is the actual name!) where only about 11 Jewish people still live. Most went back to Israel when they were offered free transport and jobs- now an area for antique shopping. Also saw Dutch House museum- nice but too hot inside. Then off on 4 hour drive west into the mountains. Gio slept much of way. Saw beautiful waterfalls, pineapple and tea plantations. Arrived at our mountain hideaway, Tall Trees, in time for a rest, shower and dinner. Rain began at end of drive so everything very wet and quite cool. Place not as nice as Cochin (very damp, rustic) and food not as good but setting is spectacular. I stayed at our cottage while Gio slept and the others went off to dinner.
Sun, Sept 13- I took Gio on a lovely run in the hills this morning. Everyone was quite amused by me running (in shorts) with Gio in the B.O.B. stroller. Breakfast and then off with a guide to visit the area. Started with a walk to see a tea plantation. Then drove up to the Eravikulam National Park and took a bus into the park. Mist and rain made it not such a great visit. Saw only one goat and a lot of fog. Oh well. Best part was bus ride out of park where the Indian passengers cheered wildly every time Gio shrieked or waved his arms. Needless to say, it was a loud ride down! Gio loves the attention he gets here.
Went on to tea museum. Gio asleep on the way so I stayed in the car with him while the others went it. Raining very heavily. Once he woke we went in just in time for the tea tasting- delicious. Visit to a beautiful church (simple stone and wood inside- none of the gawdy overdecoration of most Indian churches) and some shopping for spices and nuts. Back to hotel to put Gio to bed. I again stayed back while the others went to dinner. Enjoying Curtis Sittenfeld's book "American Wife." Thunderstorms tonight.
Monday, Sept 14- Took Gio on a run to the tea plantation where we toured yesterday. Breakfast (Gio ate lots- dosa, omelette, potatoes, fruit!). Drove to an elephant park where we all took rides. Such incredible creatures. Then a long drive to the resort Coconut Lagoon- spectacular with cottages spread out around a seaside area with a pool, swings, etc. We all swam as the sun was setting. After Gio asleep a woman came to sit with him so we could ALL go to dinner. Yeah!! Excellent food including very naughty chocolate balls. I went back early to relieve babysitter while Paolo and others tried out the bar and played chess.
Tues, Sept 15- Up very early so out to explore the grounds with him in Bjorn. We are on largest freshwater lake in the backwaters of Kerala. Visited butterfly garden and tried out swings. Met others and we all took a pre-breakfast swim. BF delicious- everything from dosas to American-style pancakes, cereal, eggs to order. Love breakfast buffets! A walk to the nearby village after Gio's nap and then waited for our houseboat to arrive which was perfect for us- 3 clean bedrooms and a comfortable sitting area in front. Gio fell asleep soon after we boarded. Served fish, veggies and rice for lunch then we played cards and read until Gio woke 2+ hours later. As we were feeding him lunch (and snacking on banana fritters and tea), the engine broke down. Ah, India. Incredible? Sure, but not when it comes to engine maintenance! Eventually we were back underway. Gio happy sitting up with us in the front as we all enjoyed the sunset. Dinner was prawns, chicken, rice, okra and a coconut salad. Pineapple for dessert.
Wed, Sept 16- Gio awake by 5- not able to settle again so he and I came out on deck to play. Beautiful morning. After breakfast (frittata, toast, mango juice), Gio back to sleep and we sat to watch life along the banks of the water as we cruised to port. Then a 4 hour drive to Kovalam to the Travancore Heritage. Resort is ok- not my favorite. Rooms are 2nd story hotel block types and one of two pools is closed. Beach is fabulous (exceptionally clean for India) but the walk to get there is drudgery- rusty stairs, trekking through a seemingly empty eerie hotel. Oh well. Took a swim in pool (and cut my knee badly on broken tiles) and then tried to get G to take a much-needed nap. No luck. So walked him down in Bjorn to beach where others were hanging out. This is definitely the best part of resort. G had his first dip in the ocean! He was too tired to really react but still fun for Paolo to introduce him to the sea.
Thurs, Sept 17- A very loud Catholic festival began on the beach at 5:00. When G woke we went on a run through the roads behind the resort. Quite fun actually to see the homes and to greet all of the people going on about their morning routines. Children were especially amused by us and eager to shout "Good Morning!" and "How are you?". When we returned the others headed out on a run on the beach. They ended up having a terrific time watching (and helping!) the fishermen pull in their nets and then the women conduct actions for the catch. Breakfast and a swim in the pool until G became crabby (quite hot) and we returned to the room for nap #2. Lunch then to beach. Gio still not a happy boy so we did not last too long. I took a walk along beach to "take a break" but after seeing a dead dog and a man pooping I turned back in disgust. Took G back for a showe with Paolo and a short nap (#3). Horrible church chanting began again which woke him up so we played a bit and then took a walk into village to buy Gio a ball and me a Diet Coke. Fun to see real life here. Back to have a drink with Paolo (Gio tasted beer...and liked it!!) and then Paolo stayed to work while I took G back to put him to bed. Dinner while babysitter stayed with G. Rain.
Fri, Sept 18-woken again at 5 by blasting music. Not a plus of this resort. P got up with us and we headed to the beach. I ran along the shoreline village and into the interior again while P took G onto the beach to watch the fishermen haul in their nets. G touched his first fish. He was quite shocked by the taste when he put his thumb back into his mouth! Returned to room so G could nap. Breakfast, a swim and then packed up to head to airport.
Friday, September 4, 2009
Two Months to Go...
Monday, June 22, 2009
June 22nd: In the USA!
Hanging out with my very own great grandmother. She has the coolest measuring spoon ever. Here I am giving them a chew.
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
On our way....
Two brothers. So sweet.
Big news is that we are on our way to the US in 3 weeks!! We will fly into Washington on June 5th. We will be in town for the month while Paolo works from the World Bank's headquarters downtown. We will drive up to Erie, PA (my hometown) the weekend of June 13-14th for Giovanni's baptism which will be conducted by Charles Brock, my uncle who also performed our marriage. Paolo will leave to come back to Delhi around July 3rd to work for 2 weeks before Giovanni and I join him in Italy. There we will spend 3 or so weeks visiting family and hiking in the mountains. And Topher? He will stay behind in Delhi this summer. We feel very sad about leaving him for so long but are comforted that Sebastian and his family will be living here with him and tending to his every need.
For lack of much else to write about, I thought some (perhaps just a few) of you might be interested to have a glimpse of a typical day for me:
Thursday, May 14th: Had a busy but good day today. Life is a challenge in many ways but in others quite a luxury. Today was the sort of day when life seemed quite easy: Paolo and I walked to the lake near our house with Topher after Gio's first bottle at 6. Gio rode in the Bjorn. He has 2 pounds to go before he hits the carrier's 26 lb weight limit so we are trying to get a few more walks in with it before we have to put it away! I gave treats to the two old, crippled stray dogs I have grown quite fond of on the way home. Paolo spent time playing with Gio when we got home as this is his only chance to see him during the day as he gets home from work after Gio's bedtime. At about 8:30 he went down for his morning nap which gave me a chance to do a bit of exercise. I was showering when he woke so Victoria changed him, fed him and played with him in the living room until I was ready. Here is where life is a luxury for me- to have someone in the house always ready to take Giovanni when I need a moment or two for myself.
We then headed over to my friend Victoria's house for coffee and a chat. She has a boy one day older than Gio so the two of them lay on a quilt and stared at each other and giggled while we chatted. Her boy is large for his age yet he is dwarfed by Giant Gio! My son threw a few jabs and kicks at Christino so I did have to separate them a bit at one point. Is this a sign of things to come? Do I have a bully on my hands??We then went home for another feed and his afternoon nap- this is the one Topher always joins him for. In the heat of the day he loves the relief of the A/C in the nursery and so the two of them snooze away for 2 or so hours. Once awake we went to visit my friend Islay who just had a baby two weeks ago- so bizarre for me to see such a tiny fellow. Even though it was only 5 months ago I cannot remember Gio that small! Next we went to the American Embassy where we met up with my friend Katja and her 18-month-old son Alfie for a swim. I go to the pool every day at 4. It is such a relief and Gio has really taken to the water. I usually invite a friend along or meet up with people there so this is also my chance to socialize with adults (yes, today I did see two other friends before the pool, but that does not happen every day!). After a coffee together Katja and I each headed home to get out boys in bed. Gio had a bath (supervised by Topher), his last bottle, we read a few books, I sang to him and then he snuggled into his crib, thumb in mouth. He fell asleep 5 minutes after I left the room with Topher.
After I finish this update I will head to the kitchen to bake brownies for our cook's birthday tomorrow. I gave him and his wife the night off since Paolo plays soccer on Thursdays and does not get home until past 9. They left dinner for us- leftover fish from last night, gazpacho (made by me!), salad and Sebastian's homemade bagel chips. Yum! We will have lychees for dessert- a fruit I have grown quite fond of here. So that's a somewhat typical day for me. Hope it gives you a picture of my life,as mundane as it may be.
We hope to see as many of you as possible this summer. I will try to write updates from the US but am making no promises.
Things I am looking forward to once I hit US soil:
Grandmother. She will finally meet her great grandson for the first time.
My family
Seeing as many of you, my dear friends, as I can!
Whole Foods (or any clean grocery store where the foods are not past their expiration date!)
Sidewalks
Driving myself
Reliable electricity
Not worrying if water gets in my mouth during a shower
Beef
Daytime temps below 100
Baby stores
Online shopping
Decent bread
Fresca
Twizzlers
Turkey sandwiches
The Today Show
Netflix
Being in the same time zone as most of my family and friends
Chocolate that has not sat on a store shelf melting and reforming over and over again until it is a tasteless blob.
Less dust
Clean air
Rain
Frozen yogurt
Montrose Park
Being able to cross the street without risking my life.
Things I will miss when I am away from India:
Topher
Topher
Topher
Topher
Barbara upstairs.
All of my other friends, esp my "Babies and Bumps" group
Our staff
Having a driver (yes, contradicts my desire to drive...but it is nice to have someone who parks, gets me anywhere I want to go and allows me to read/send emails on the move!)
Our morning walk to the lake and the two old strays I feed
Topher
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Back from Italy
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Off to Italy!
Hair in mid-shed (now there is nothing but a bit of a tuft at the back!)